Legal Support for Father’s in Custody Hearings
Family breakdowns can be emotional and complicated — especially for fathers who want to stay active in their children’s lives. At Access Law Legal Services, we know how overwhelming it can feel when you’re told you have “fewer rights” or when you’re struggling to understand what the court expects from you.
The truth is simple: fathers have the same legal rights and responsibilities as mothers, provided they hold parental responsibility. What matters most to the court is not gender — it’s the best interests of the child.
If you’re a father preparing for a custody or child arrangements hearing, here’s how we can help you protect your relationship with your child and navigate the process confidently.
Understanding Your Rights as a Father
If you’re named on your child’s birth certificate (after December 2003 in England and Wales), you automatically have parental responsibility (PR). This means you have a say in your child’s upbringing — including education, healthcare, religion, and where they live. If you’re not on the birth certificate, we can help you apply for parental responsibility through the Family Court, usually as part of your C100 application for a child arrangements order.
Parental responsibility gives you:
• A voice in major decisions about your child’s welfare
• Access to school and medical information
• The legal right to spend time with your child
Preparing for a Custody or Child Arrangements Hearing
Custody hearings — now called Child Arrangements Orders — determine who the child “lives with” and “spends time with.” Courts look for stability, safety, and a consistent relationship with both parents wherever possible.
At Access Law, we support fathers with:
• Preparing applications for contact or shared care
• Drafting persuasive position and witness statements
• Responding to allegations of domestic abuse or safeguarding concerns
• Organising evidence bundles and court documents
• Providing McKenzie Friend support at hearings
We’ll ensure your case is child-focused, well-structured, and highlights your commitment to your child’s wellbeing.
Common Challenges Fathers Face
Fathers often come to us feeling unheard or misrepresented. Some of the most common issues include:
• Allegations of controlling or abusive behaviour
• Being denied contact without a valid reason
• Struggles with communication between parents
• False claims used to block or delay contact
• Uncertainty around international relocation or school choices
We’ll help you respond appropriately, stay focused on evidence, and show the court your ability to parent safely and positively.
If You’ve Been Accused of Domestic Abuse
Many fathers find themselves defending allegations that they say are false or exaggerated. The court takes all such claims seriously, and you must too.
We can help you:
• Prepare your response carefully and respectfully
• Gather supporting evidence (messages, witnesses, reports)
• Understand how fact-finding hearings work
• Make appropriate proposals for contact while there are live allegations
Remember: defending yourself does not mean being defensive. The court wants to see cooperation, insight, and a focus on your child’s emotional safety.
How We Can Help You Move Forward
At Access Law Legal Services, we specialise in helping self-represented fathers and litigants in person handle complex family law cases affordably.
We can:
✅ Draft all your family court documents
✅ Advise on what to expect in court and how to speak to the judge
✅ Attend court with you as a McKenzie Friend for practical and emotional support
Key Takeaway
Being a father in the family court system can feel daunting — but you are not powerless. With clear guidance, well-prepared evidence, and a calm approach, you can secure meaningful contact and play an active role in your child’s life.
If you’re preparing for a custody hearing or need help responding to an application, get in touch today. We’ll help you understand your options, prepare your documents, and stand strong for your child.
📞 Book a free 15 minute consultation today to discuss your case and find out how we can help.
Our approach is always child-focused and solution-driven — not combative.